THE NEW POOR
When we look at someone or something we always have a value judgment that goes with our sight. We look at a piece of furniture (does not match anything in our house) and we say, “Well, some people might like it!” But I certainly do not like it!
If we consider whose is poor in our Canadian society and we only evaluate these people in terms of their incomes we are certainly limiting our vision. There are many ways that people are poor – if we are honest enough to keep our eyes open.
The greatest form of poverty is not to be wanted. We see that happen in so many of our care homes for the aged. The families will “dop them off” to competent care and then rarely come to spend any time or effort with their aged parent. The loneliness is very difficult.
Some family members will try to excuse themselves, “She doesn’t know who we are. She can never have a conversation with us.”
But this is probably the most important time the adult children can spend with their mother in her dementia. How can we help these family members see that just to hold your mother’s hand is such a loving time.
We also meed to teach family members not to go aloe to visit their aged mother in the afternoon. Take another person with you for some conversation. If you are all alome with your mother in the care home you might get bored and quit too early.
The new poor are those who suffer family break up with all the hard feelimgs and sharp membrs that hamper the chance of a healing withing the family.
The new poor are the parents of adult children who are heavy into the fentanyl and cocaine and now sport’s gambling is wrecking havoc on peoples’ llives – especially men between 14 and 55. How much suffering is there in a parent’s heart when they see their son lose his house and vehicle through unpaid gambling debts?
The new poor are those who have drifted away from the Christian faith (i.e., they no longer identify with the person of Jesus Christ) but happily claim they are ‘spiritual.’ Not having a livimg relationship with the very Son of God is a true sense of poverty.
Poverty has many faces! We want to help people see the poverty (with its many faces) that surrounds them on a daily basis.