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No one wants to make a mistake.
But making mistakes is as necessary to life as breathing.
How many times have you had to work with people who “make the same mistakes over and over again? But you can’t tell them anything because they know better!
Right from very early age we experiment, we see if the stove is actually hot! Our little hand touched the hot stove! Ouch! We never do that again! We have learnt something new.
Now this continues right to the end of life. In our very senior years we may think that we are still very competent drivers. Then, ouch! We back into a parked car and leave a dent in a stranger’s vehicle. If we are honest with ourselves, we will draw the correct conclusion to this fender-bender.
But it is also important in our teenage years that we get ourselves into trouble. We are caught in a very difficult situation. Now, this may be a time when we have to figure our way out of this mess that we brought on ourselves.
What a lesson learnt!
As we enter into the spiritual life we want to teach people that we will make mistakes. We can be too demanding of God: “Get us out of this sickness! Or other sufferings and confusion!
We may have abandoned the practice of daily prayer only to be confronted that we are out to “Use God.” We are in trouble and so we cry out as a man falling off a cliff cries out for help.
We may be blind to how judgmental we really are toward people who do not share the same color, culture and history that we do. We can be blind to the ‘racist spots” in our personality.
The spiritual life is an actual journey of ups and downs. Try to see what can happen when we are honest about our mistakes, our failures and missteps. Where is the direction that the Holy Spirit is giving in these mistakes?
Fortunately, we are living in a time when our church is being more honest about its failure to live up to Gospel teaching. Last month Pope Leo asked for forgiveness for the failures of the Church in its long history with slavery. It has taken six centuries to come to a n honest assesment that the people of the Church were very wrong in their approval and practice of slavery. And it took six centuries to come to this honest assessment.
Take a few moments to see the blessings that have emerged in your own life in r egard to the mistakes you have made.